Shit night out 2

For me at least, but i'll recover once i've recovered from my cold :P

anyways 2 opens
one really bad reject, the chick was apparently in a serious relationship. so no hard feelings.
2nd open went well, but was sick and so was brain so my material quickly ran dry and she was leached by passer-by.

Bad night out

No opens, no nothing.
I was sick from the begining to the end, a lot of open doors i didn't peak through.

I think the problem was partially my cold, and my need to work a bit on anchoring. I gotta get doc. on that.

On closing

I'm not going to attempt #closes until i get one #close asked by the girl.
Reason: i need to develop my discussion skills enough to the point of catching the girl's interest all the while seeming a bit intriguing so that she wants to know more about me. I can see how to work that all, and i must develop it.

Until then i'll just work on my opening/development parts of my approaches.

More stats and tech.

Gogo lounge+Tokyo bar:

8 successful opens of sets between 2-6 girls+ 2 rejects(that could easily have been gamed/ended up differently with a different approach) @ gogo.

at tokyo, 5 good vibes in chick, but the chicks were pretty immature and mostly rejected, even though we got a good 5 min of chat post *rejection* attempt, and constant huge smiles/laughs. (i guess they must not get these types of Mr. Smooth approaches often and have thought of us as weirdoes)

And some perv. chick pinching everyone's ass towards the end, i came to her to collect my fees but she wanted to play authority figure....retrospect: shoulda kissed her when she was standing up to me.

@ tokyo&gogo towards the end the chicks were coming to us/checking us out, having seen our gaming all around, and the guys were all thinking we were some sort of high valued guys.
I fucking love this lifestyle.

we also befriended the gogo staff, and OWNED the line up @ gogo, when we had to come back in to get our jackets, the chicks were like who the fuck are they. Fucking 5 star social proof. Amazing shit.

Chicks ranked from 6-8.5/9:
Really good vibe from the 9 too! at one point she commented on how she was amazed by my height, i could have gamed her slightly differently and secluded her from her friends/guy friend (dunno if it was boyfriend, but i still stood a chance).

Should'ves/could'ves arent for this blog ;) so it was a SUCCESS.

I tried to #close a chick, but although interested she felt we didnt talk enough, and let me know. I gotta work on random emotional discussion, and keeping it interesting/sexual.
About that girl, i had started her friend, and then she had joined into the discussion at the very begining, she was average cute, i had tried some sort of bestfriend test, and she answered with a "we're not making out!" hahahha, i hadn't laughed because i thought she was talking about her and me! but obviously she meant her and her friend, great ioi i guess, trying to crack a joke. She also kept an eye on me the whole night, same with most girls @ the bar. I had my *You can't play the player* t-shirt too so it might have been obvious what reasons i was out there for. Tons of fun! But the chicks loved me too! so i'm tons happy.

Those who rejected me @ gogo, i think i didn't project an alpha male attitude strongly enough, hesitating, just being quiet,
So they gave me a shittest/reject (which could have been gamed) saying "We were having a discussion here, what are you doing talking about "

I then said i just needed their opinion but that was weak. What i should have said is "Because what i'm talking about is infinetly more interesting than anything you two could be talking about!"
but hey: scars only make your skin tougher! so i just moved along and gamed every chick, (with friends help) .

Got rejected by a set of 2 blond 7s who thought themselves heigher, but were not worth it.

Great MR SMOOTH approaches @ tokyo i felt fucking natural doing the MR. SMOOTH, and the chicks Loved it, chick tried to reject me/buddy with *i'm not interested* i owned her with a *neither am i* but i ended with a *we're just here to have fun* B-A-D.

Resume:
Keep gaming, trying different openers, try some more Natural feeling Mr. smooth too.

Goals:
next outing # close/kiss close.

Future outings (soon)
F* close in bathroom.

A lot of the chicks showed excellent reception/etc. about my height too. i gotta find some one liners for that.

Side note 2

Things have never been better.
I'm not back yet, but here's the status quo:
Ever since a large open in a night club, and a contact-close with a quite cute target before that, i'm opening everywhere, thinking ON the instant/moment and i feel much more conscious of the environment and things close to/around me. Less intimidated too.

Exams are still a pain, but they're almost over.

The real revelation will be once the exams are over and i get some basic material to use and completly take care of my lack of confidence. Then i can go straight with my own material on the moment.

Good bye, and thanks for all the fish.

I think it's time i gave it a break, and i try the material.

What's important is going out and talking to chicks first. The rest (this blog) is just details, that in my case aren't verified but only based on theory.

Yes i will be back, once i have new tested material to write about. There is some biographical material lower in this blog, that would go under that category, but the material is not scripted, and most details my failures rather than successes.

I hope to change that the next time i post here.

PS: i also have exams this month so heh :-P might be an added reason

Cocky & funny Naturally!

Here are s ome points of note on being cocky and funny:
As i've said before, the way we act ourselves with those close to us, is a good model to base your cocky and funny style on.

Even those of us that are nice guys with their close ones!

I'm sure anyone can think of a moment of frustration when they at least thought of cocky and funny things to say, but never got to say them...They perceived it completly in their conscience (in that inner voice blabbering all day) but never got it out.

In situations where you might be intimidated or in awe because of a girl, your conscience might even shut up and focus on HER, and on trying to make YOU perfect, thinking extremly fast of all the dumb things you can prevent yourself from doing. And the more you think the less you talk, and the more you get frustrated. It's an evil circle. It all started cause you thunk.

The goal is clearly to NOT overthink situations you might say, and i will concure. Too much thinking just leads to deadly silence.

But then what to do? Well occupy your mind thinking of something ELSE way more constructive in the current situation, what is that you might ask?

Well right now think of one situation with some person (preferably girl), whoever it might be, with whome you constantly came up with quick c&f answers to any questions or problems they might pose.

Think of that person and GENERALISE that person to absolutly every girl. More than that, try to think of how you felt the last time you were with that person, how things were going in your brain (usually very calm, unstressful, just happy and carefree) . Focus on that mode of thinking, focus on it a while. Enough so that you can feel it.

Now what you need to do is go on with doing what you were doing and check back every five minutes as to whether or not you're in that mood again. If not, focus on it, try that for a half hour, then hour, then longer and longer.

Once you get to feel like that for a reasonable period of time (i'll let you be the judge of what reasonable is, i remind you that you need to be in that mood when you approach girls so however long you think it takes you to close a set or what not), you can go back to doing whatever and being in whatever mood. But keep on trying to instore that mood instantly at random times of the day. That will eventually permit you to just click your fingers and get in that mood so that you can do that when you need to be in that state.

It really does work, the mind a powerful machine, your thoughts are steering it.