Last times i went out i've been doing a lot of "cavemanning" as they call it, that is just picking up the girl off the floor and virtually rapping her on the dance floor.
That's my approach, because i have nothing to say and i don't say anything, so as long as she doesnt reject me before hand and i go up to dancing with her, then i'll caveman her.
A lot, recently, i've been getting approached.. by random girls/women. My rate has gone up drastically to about 3/day on average in the last week. (varying from none to 7 per day!)
The approaches i've been getting vary from a simple "salut" (hi) to the more frequent "you're tall", and even some girls who wanted to say something a bit more researched than just wow you're tall and so they'll try to say it subtly or find a way not to show immediate interest.
I've been unable to react significantly when i get approached, and my canned *bold* responses are treated as insulting remarks these days!
From my thinking about these situations i've concluded that the response has to be as natural, and just a normal reaction to the person as if i'd known them for a while. So i have to train myself to ignore whatever is *inhibitive* in me to react as i would normally.
These days i've also been using a lot of the same lines (original, and my own, but the same ones over and over again) and as time goes by it seems they get out of date and do not have the same spike and effect as they would the first time. Its all about the personality, something i lack as of late because i've been traumatised by the definition of maturity, and i'm overreacting to it these days, so that i consider every thing that i havent seen done before as *immature*, but it shouldn't be that way, i have to learn to let go... and be myself.
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