TAdadadada dum da dum!

4 nights was as much as i could pull (low budget) for this reading week.

Here's a short write up of the general things i learned:

First of all, SOCIAL PROOF IS GOLD, now i use social proof very, loosely here, and in a loud club environment, as much as just being the guy who "cheers" everyone in the club, or even barely high fiving dancing chicks can help a lot, it'll give you a mystical sort of aura especially if you don't talk and it'll give you something to do if you get EC and can't think of anything to say.

Hanging out with one wing at all times even if he is quiet, or if you are, helps a lot too. But one mistake i did while going out with a wing was not follow him at all times during the approach, whereas on the last day i had a different person accompagny me he was constantly following me, that increased aura/success.

The basic social dynamic rules (ie. don't approach moving sets, ...) all apply.

I had near-success with a moving chick by NEGging her first *you're kinda cute* but be ready to react sharply to her response/reaction. And maybe ignore her after.

NLP is gold, but sometimes too powerful, and calibration is the key, i suggest to try it all the way to see the result, and then learn to calibrate depending on the reactions. One of my mistakes here is that as i saw it working IMMEDIATELY, i took a few seconds to think of something else NON-NLP to continue the approach, bad move, see where it goes, then go into rapport, and ask questions about the emotional aspects of anything realting to her/her mind/things like that. Then use these in your sentence construction to suggest you believe in those very things, reformulate it.

It's important that you tell your story, and work from a *what concerns you* point of view.

Don't try to hard, don't insist.