Cocky & funny Naturally!

Here are s ome points of note on being cocky and funny:
As i've said before, the way we act ourselves with those close to us, is a good model to base your cocky and funny style on.

Even those of us that are nice guys with their close ones!

I'm sure anyone can think of a moment of frustration when they at least thought of cocky and funny things to say, but never got to say them...They perceived it completly in their conscience (in that inner voice blabbering all day) but never got it out.

In situations where you might be intimidated or in awe because of a girl, your conscience might even shut up and focus on HER, and on trying to make YOU perfect, thinking extremly fast of all the dumb things you can prevent yourself from doing. And the more you think the less you talk, and the more you get frustrated. It's an evil circle. It all started cause you thunk.

The goal is clearly to NOT overthink situations you might say, and i will concure. Too much thinking just leads to deadly silence.

But then what to do? Well occupy your mind thinking of something ELSE way more constructive in the current situation, what is that you might ask?

Well right now think of one situation with some person (preferably girl), whoever it might be, with whome you constantly came up with quick c&f answers to any questions or problems they might pose.

Think of that person and GENERALISE that person to absolutly every girl. More than that, try to think of how you felt the last time you were with that person, how things were going in your brain (usually very calm, unstressful, just happy and carefree) . Focus on that mode of thinking, focus on it a while. Enough so that you can feel it.

Now what you need to do is go on with doing what you were doing and check back every five minutes as to whether or not you're in that mood again. If not, focus on it, try that for a half hour, then hour, then longer and longer.

Once you get to feel like that for a reasonable period of time (i'll let you be the judge of what reasonable is, i remind you that you need to be in that mood when you approach girls so however long you think it takes you to close a set or what not), you can go back to doing whatever and being in whatever mood. But keep on trying to instore that mood instantly at random times of the day. That will eventually permit you to just click your fingers and get in that mood so that you can do that when you need to be in that state.

It really does work, the mind a powerful machine, your thoughts are steering it.