Sometimes you get the feeling you should just go ahead and talk to an attractive lady. You can really feel the chemistry, and you know that however the conversation goes, you will be comfortable in carrying it. However you do have trouble finding the "opener", and are still an AFC frustrated by paranoia of being rejected.
Personally i believe it's all about the certain state of mind you're in and the surrounding environment. And unfortunately following the method i will recommend in case both of those are actually good, a lot will depend on the reaction of the girl (my personal view is that a simple classical method, not dealing excessively with c&f is better to start a relationship the SLOW way). C&f nearly predetermines the answer you will get, since you know the effect is to sorta confuse her.
I think if you reallly feel it, you should just go for it and talk to her about the most random things. If she responds good the odds are she's interested too. Key things to keep in mind, even though this is a slow way to start the relationship, you might want to keep your discussion with her short, and get her email before you show her with body-language (looking ahead) that you've gotta go.
To practice this just go talk randomly to people (male/female) this will sort of calm down your fear of talking to random strangers. Also looking like an open talkative person helps. I don't know why but i often get random people coming to talk to me (i go out at night a couple times a week, at least once or twice people make random remarks to start short discussions.)
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unfornately, i dont think that it is really your point of view.
personnally, from what i have seen, i dont think that u are the guy who is able to flirt easily girls.
unless that u became now a different guy and not anymore the afc that i knew.
btw, i dont believe in these tactics or guides or whatever.
the easiest way (and maybe the longest way ) is to keep trying on approaching girls different ways and learning from failure (if u are still unable; then get drunk but not too much).
it s true that it s better to find a simple approach, because, if you try a complex way, she ll think that u re a weirdo (u know girl s brain is usually small so she cant understand unusual and difficult things)
en passant slim j aime bien ton blog, continue, mais ce serait mieux si tu mets des photos et des videos d experience et d essai :)
Good recommendations for the videos and of trial and error. Will do. As for the actual tactics and guides, i'm of the same point of view as you.
I don't believe in them. But there are some guides that tell you obvious things you already knew but just give you more confidence to try it more readily now that you know you won't be the first. And as for the alcohol i think it's dumb to first drink before going on the hunt because you will start going illogical.
So ya, most of the articles i post here are to be integrated into your personality and they are not general approaches. When i post a pick up line you figure out how to deliver such a line and be congruent with the content of the line. That's what's important, the line itself could be a simple hello, as long as you know what to say afterwards.
As for my flirting success, i guess you'll see for yourself and tell me whenever you come back from france.
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